Overcoming of part in a mind is a daryl a man the real force, based on love. Such force does not have scopes. As for various exercises, then nothing, except for pride, they do not give. Because primordial property of a part mind-ego is pride. For this reason the admirers of esoteric sciences have illnesses, psychical and physical. I meet people, «pounding» itself by exercises on a capture every energies from time to time. A modern man does not understand that the main is to capture ability to live on Earth, and space with his, as name it, will come energies. you remember that no energies are present (see book «Motion of Love»)? If you will translate foreign word «energy» into Russian language as «force» and «motion», your internal will understand, what speech goes about, and gradually you will become acquainted with these states.

You had to depend upon someone in senses, in businesses? It was certainly. And what it ended with — frequently, and can be, and always? By a failure. There was such sense, that you are failed, does not it? As though there is not support, connection, understanding, absents as though. Whereupon there is sharp sense of own loneliness. Which you, certainly, reject.

There is two exit from this situation.

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Masculine mind — linear. It means that each a subsequent idea in him leans against previous. The linearness and hierarchy is so created. In a womanish mind — nonlinear — all things exist in itself, separately and equal in rights.

From a masculine mind you can see hierarchical connection of things, but can not see that all these things of . From a womanish mind you see separate existence of things and their equality of rights, but not able to see hierarchical dependence.

A masculine mind sees a tie-up and sets the hierarchy of relations. A womanish mind does not acknowledge an order and laws of masculine mind, he acknowledges only life in any its display. A masculine mind names it chaos.

In people still the argued that lives in the world governs man. A man builds hierarchical relations, for a man one in the field not warrior, a man has a concept of honour, debt, mutual aid. People consider still, that in the world governs masculine beginning, you trust therefore, lean and... failed.

Because in the minds of people a long ago already a womanish look lives to the world, where things exist in itself, but not in connection with each other. A word does not stick to therefore, obligations are not observed. Each in itself, each for itself and one in the field warrior. Hollywood films it very clear show.

How to operate in such situation? As teach in martial arts: it is necessary to submit force and move in that direction, where it draws you. And where it draws? In loneliness.

Will reconcile oneself to with a womanish look to the world, you must admit that you one, in itself and each for itself. In fact preeminently it you see every day around.

Attention! If you will accept this idea, then will get in a next trap, your mind will catch you again. «I — one» or «I — one» is a not idea, but awareness and residence! Only so you will be able to dissociate the umbilical cord from a mother.

When accept that you — one, begin to depend upon itself, begin to hear people, can sue for a help and accept it outside. Force and forces appear.